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Find Your Niche.

I was having coffee with a friend who was asking me for some advice about a life challenge he was struggling with. I found myself in these kinds of conversations often with people. My friend said to me, “you would make a good life coach”. …

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Reduce Chaos and Enhance Focus.

Is your workday constantly filled with chaos and distractions? Do you find it difficult to focus on the tasks at hand? If so, you’re not alone. According to a study by the University of California, Irvine, employees are interrupted every 11 minutes, and it takes an average of 23 minutes…

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Trust Your Gut.

I had an experience a number of years ago that was a turning point for me. I was a broker/realtor, back in the day. I was approached by another realtor with an “opportunity” to make some serious extra money. I had a decision to make, that in my gut didn’t…

A Book Review

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Inner Christianity

A Guide to the Esoteric Tradition

by Richard Smoley

In this profoundly thoughtful and insightful work, Richard Smoley reminds us that the esoteric tradition is not only found in eastern and other traditions but is found in Christianity as well.

In Part Two, titled “The Vision” I was hooked. Smoley…

And Block Your Happiness

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7 Thoughts That Will Mess With Your Head

Have you ever had a negative thought that just sat in your brain and kept you from being happy? Maybe it was something someone said to you, or something you said to yourself. …

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Below are 7 tips for men going through divorce. Divorce is one of the most painful experiences a man or woman can go through. I have been through two divorces and had a brief career as a divorce mediator. …

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Why do some people stay stuck?

My Client Robert (not his real name) had a fear of success. He came to me because he felt he wanted to remove whatever was blocking his success.

He was in middle management for a major corporation and had the talent and bona fides…

Barry Chaffee

Blogger, Entrepreneur, former Pastor. I write about spirituality, personal development, meditation, and weird life experiences. I blog at

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